Here are 10 tips for a successful first date!
1 – STAY RELAXED
You have agreed to a date with someone you like. This is an important moment. Needless to stress, however. If the person has accepted, it is that you’ve already seduced party. Relax by telling you that you have more to gain than to lose.
Try to agree mutually on a meeting place where you feel comfortable both. Allow time for the meeting. It would be stupid to shorten a friendly discussion because you have a business meeting to honor. We must approach this moment with an open mind and the desire to enjoy real.
2 – TREAT HER LOOK
It is important to show that we have made a real effort to see the other. This kind of attention is very telling for the person that we must meet. Also, choose an outfit suited to the place and event. We do not dress the same way as we are going to the opera or the local coffee shop. Useless as far as to get ready for a ceremony, especially if you get out of work. Ladies, avoid too outrageous makeup.
3 – ARRIVE ON TIME
Nobody likes to wait. Especially when it comes to a tryst. Try to arrive on time. If the place is away from your work, go ahead. Someone is waiting for minutes will think you are not really concerned with the appointment and will consider your late as contempt. This is obviously not a good way to start things.
4 – CARE ABOUT THE OTHER
Demonstrate an open interest of the person in front of you: she will be flattered. It is also very important to listen. You might be tempted to impress, giving positive details and telling flattering anecdotes about your life. However, show that you want to know really. Your contact/trice and understand that he likes you and want to discover more detail in order to initiate a relationship.
5 – DO NOT TALK OF EX
The most taboo of the first date, it is the former. You are there to talk and project yourself into the future and not the past. Compare the person in front of you a woman or a man who shared your life can be hurtful. Anyway, you speak good or ill of your ex, the other will think that you have not turned the page.
The first appointment is a time of discovery of the other. Do not talk to him either of his stories of heart over. In a time when we create intimacy and where we learn to know the other, the ghosts of the past have no place.
6 – MAKE ANOTHER LAUGH
Of course, no one is funny on command. However, try to smile the next, without embarking on a dangerous clown. A nice anecdote, a joke, this can significantly lighten the mood a bit stilted the tryst debut. Attention humor is a very personal thing.
Do not wait for hysterical laughter. The key is to create a climate of complicity, causing a smile. With some humor, everything goes better, and everyone will be more relaxed. Gentlemen, remember that a developed sense of humor is a quality almost unanimously sought by the ladies.
7 – DO NOT ADDRESSING ISSUES OR PERSONAL POLEMICS
You’re not really intimate both. That is why it is better to avoid venturing too personal. The person does not want to reveal his deepest fears, to explain his family concerns or talk about her recent divorce.
Each of delivering what he wants to each other, at their own pace, without feeling that grows in confidence. Similarly, controversial topics are avoided. Religion or politics, if all goes well, you will have ample time to discuss these things later if you want to see you again.
8 – MAINTAINING THE CONVERSATION
There will surely be white: this is inevitable in a conversation with someone that we know little. But this should not overly stress you. Instead, pull in advantage. These white allow you to remain in control of the discussion. Try restarting the dialogue, find new topics to cover, those in which you feel comfortable.
Despite the delicacy of the moment, there are many topics of conversation for two people who discover, such as recreation, work, family, cooking, music, and cinema, traveling. If you discover commonalities or an anecdote echoes a situation that you have experienced, feel free to mention it.
9 – STAY FOCUSED ON THE OTHER
Shyness may push you to flee his eyes, but try to keep your eyes on the other person. This will give her the impression that you are honest and concerned. Of course, it is better to avoid the glances too supported that one can think charmers, but which often prove troublesome when one knows little.Avoid anyway to watch people around you, especially if they are the same sex as the person accompanying you.
It is perhaps too early to stir up jealousy and above all, very few have appropriate air dredge elsewhere. Similarly, do not stay focused (e) constantly on your laptop and your watch. The attention that one gate to another is fundamental.
10 – DO NOT SEEK TO CONCLUDE ANY PRICE
It is never easy to know what is the right time to kiss someone we like. What are the signs that we send? He also wants? Do not put pressure by saying that a kiss is a must for a successful meeting. Do not feel obliged to take the first step. If the time is right, it will come naturally to you both.
If you are looking to force his hand, the other will feel attacked and will cringe seeing you thus force his personal space. In addition, it may suggest that you think only one thing: to find an easy adventure.